Waiting for Lightning

Waiting for Lightning

Talking with one of my girlfriends last night, she was trying to convince me to get back out into the dating world.  Keep in mind, this advice came from someone who hasn’t even dipped her toes into the dating realm for years.  As much as I love my friend, I can’t live my life for her enjoyment.

Dating in the twenty-first century is a hard game to play. I found it just as challenging, if not even more so, than a good game of chess (which I’ve recently started replaying).  Unlike the board game, the rules of dating often change in mid-play.  It’s impossible to plan three or four moves ahead, because the possible moves are infinite from one to the next.  A knight may turn out to be a bishop, or a king a simple pawn.  I can strategize all I want, but the game unfolds as it wills, not as I plan.  Being a queen, and able to move in so many different ways, only presents more frustration than freedom, more consequences than choices.

Some of the pieces (players) are easy to identify and I know the game to which they play, but I have to keep telling myself – we’re all humans.  Even the Playa’s have a soul. One of the things I’ve learned about humanity is that it’s always unpredictable and ever changing.  The moment I think I’ve figured it out and assign a label or a box (I’m highly organized and try to put everything in a place), I’m proved wrong.  Humanity – it’s so beautiful yet so dark, and thus so are relationships.

To play this game I have to know who I am and what I want to achieve.  It’s the only way I have a chance to win.  As with the game of chess – I have to keep my focus on my ultimate goal, else I’ll get distracted by the most recent or obvious move – and therefore lose sight of my objective and get trapped by a more keen player. I have to be slow to respond because impulsive moves leads to traps and defeats.  What looks good at the moment and as an opportunity to capture an opponent’s piece, could lead me into a defeat and I lose more than I wanted.  I’m so tired of losing and being blind-sided.  Letting my passion and heart lead – doesn’t win the game.

I’m not satisfied with just capturing a pawn, a bishop, a knight, or a rook.  I want the king.  Only with the king does lightning strike.  I’ve only felt the lightning twice in my life, but they were both in a game I lost.  I got close to the kings, but I also didn’t know how to play the game.  I know the feeling of defeat; of loss.  And the scars makes me reluctant to play.

The game board is set.  The pieces are all aligned, and I’ve been playing this game for a while now.  While my girlfriend wants me to move, I’ve paused, and am carefully identifying the pieces left on the board.

I’m tired of pawns; I need a man who knows what he wants and can move more than just forward and strike from an angle.  I’m so tired of angles. I want original, authentic, compassionate.

I’m am also tired of Bishops and their haphazard way of striking. They’re never straight-forward, talking out both sides of their mouths.   They present themselves one way, but after peeling back the layers you find their piety as false as their declarations. Let them keep their titles, their money, their success.  They look good on the outside, but empty shells on the inside. Assholes.

The same goes for those damned Rooks, still stuck in their patterns, only able to move back and forward, and side to side – a life filled with certainties, boxes and traditions.  They’re not versatile and can’t break from their patterns.  They live by their philosophies and expectations, and are not flexible, most often self-centered and selfish. I’m versatile.  I need versatility.

While knights are extremely interesting and brave, and can move back and forth and side to side in their complicated patterns, they often leave me to fight the cause.  I admire their bravery and respect their sacrifices.  They’re true soldiers of honor and dignity.  Their mission always comes first.  I will only come first if I’m the mission.

So, here I stand, waiting.  What am I waiting for?  I’m waiting for lightning; a fire that can only come from a king and put an end to this game.

There are a lot of pawns, a couple of rooks, knights and bishops… but there’s only one king to conquer.  But how do I capture him?  He eludes me.  He hides.  He dances.  He doesn’t want to be captured.  He plays his own game.

In this game… it is the king that must be captured, not the queen.  I can’t just sit and wait for him to find me.  I’m the most powerful piece, the most versatile, the most valuable.  My mission is to capture a king, but it’s also to protect one.

Come storm clouds, gather above me.  Thunder, I long to feel  your rumble beneath my feet.  Wind, whip through my existence.  Rain, pelt me with your cleansing drops.  Lightning… strike true.

Checkmate.

Till next time,

~The White Queen

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