Many of you have followed me for years and have witnessed my journey into health and fitness. Some of you are just cyberly meeting me for the first time. For those of you who don’t know me, you don’t know that I’m not the same person I was a few years ago… I’m a new person in body, mind, soul and spirit. I’ve entered a new phase in my life, one that was a very hard change, a dramatic change, but a good change. There have been a lot of mountains I’ve had to climb, and along the way so far I’ve done some very amazing things at I’ve crested some of those mountains, and have also found myself tumbled, tossed, and on my face at the bottom of others. But in all of them, I’ve been livin’ out loud as evidenced here on this blog; my high points and my low ones.
This morning I’m going to focus on health and fitness. I’ve spent a lot of blogs on spiritual and emotional issues. Health and fitness is very much spiritual and emotional, but I want to focus on the physical aspect today. I’ve once again brought my focus back to my health. I haven’t been ignoring my weight goals, I’ve just had the majority of my focus in other areas that needed more attention. But, it’s that time again to bring back balance to my health and fitness aspect of this loud life.
Balance is key to everything. I mean everything. But today I’m going to focus on balance in diet and exercise. I really hate the word diet, because I really don’t diet. I have an eating lifestyle that works for my body. I will admit I haven’t been faithful to my eating lifestyle because of many factors over the past 8-9 months because I’ve moved to another state, moved in with my best friend, and the many changes have just got me off schedule. Yet, I’m getting back on schedule and slamming those ‘easy’ temptations out of my way. It’s not about saying ‘no’ to the bad things, the foods that don’t work for your body, but about making sure your ‘yes’ are readily available so that your choice isn’t ‘no’ with no alternative. You should never forgo eating, exercising, or being active without a choice to make or else that’s just depravation and depravation leads to binge eating, failing at establishing a routine because you don’t see any physical results, and discouragement. ALWAYS have a choice to make. If you have fresh fruit readily available, it’s easier to forgo the donuts, especially when you remind yourself of the hard work you’ve done that week. But, it’s almost impossible to forgo the donut if that’s the only thing quickly available.
90% of the battle to eat healthy and be active is a mind game. 10% is determination.
Here are few tips to help you make those healthy decisions:
Ø Use small dishes. Get rid of your big bowls, big plates, big glasses. Use salad plates as dinner plates, use small glasses (unless you’re drinking water – then it’s best to use a water bottle), and cook with small pots and pans. You will be amazed at how much you will feel full when your small plate is full, yet in the RIGHT portion. Portion is key. Portion is balance. 90% of our bad eating habits isn’t always about WHAT we eat, but how much we eat. If you can teach yourself how to eat the right portion, you can pretty much eat anything you want, because you won’t be overeating.
Ø If you eat out, before you get your meal go ahead and ask for a ‘to go’ box and when your meal is served, go ahead and box up half or ¾ of the meal, and spread out the rest and then relax and enjoy what’s left on your plate. Many times we keep eating what’s in front of us after we’ve reached that ‘full’ sensation in our bodies because it’s there and our minds are conditioned to clean our plates. This leads to overeating and becoming unbalanced. But if you do this simple step, you won’t have to ‘diet’ eating out, you just do it smart.
Ø Select foods that work with your body. Some of us are blessed with high metabolisms and can be more free with what we eat, while others have to be very selective because of slow metabolisms and be more selective. Smart eating, knowing your body… truly knowing your body – not lying to yourself, will lead to more success in your journey to health and fitness. Discover which foods help you, energize you, inspire you and work FOR you. Learn to listen to your body and it’ll tell you want it needs – iron, protein, vitamins and energy.
Well, that’s all I have for you today. I’ll try to touch base on some of the exercise tips next. Just remember this if you take anything from this post today. Your body is yours. Don’t try to change your body to make anyone else happy, the world happy, or in order to feel beautiful. Love yourself enough to want you to be the best you… for you. Be the best, healthiest, most active, and happiest you… for YOU. You are worth it. It’s not about what size you are, how much you weigh, or how you look in a bikini. Being healthy and happy is about lighting this inner radiance that can’t help but shine through you. It’s about your essence, your Chi, and when this is in balance, beauty resonates within you and from you.
Till next time,